FROM MY JOURNAL:
I took Ryan and his Papa Huey to the Lake
D’Arbonne Spillway. After a couple of minutes, Ryan
caught his first fish—a little catfish. He was so proud of himself he didn’t
know what to do! Later, he caught some bream. I’ll never forget him standing
there in that wind in his little orange cap, grinning from ear to ear and
holding up that stringer for all to see. I wish I could capture that moment forever.
Tonight we went to the bridge over Bayou DeSiard. And he and I
caught two tiny fish apiece. We stayed two hours.
We rented a rowboat and fished among the cypress trees on Bayou
DeSiard. Ryan caught six fish and I caught one. He was very happy about
it—though not very gracious in victory! He sure rubbed it in! We stayed 5
hours. He wore his orange hat and an old orange lifejacket. His face got
blistered. He is so good with a rod and reel it seems as if he’s been doing
this for years.
Ryan gets so wrapped up in things! He watched a fishing show on TV
today and rearranged our tackle box, in order to compare our lures to what he
was seeing on TV.
He has enormous powers of concentration for a 6-year-old. He knew
his alphabet at age one. He couldn’t recite it, but he could identify every
letter correctly.
He memorized our insect picture-book at age one, learned to swim at one, became interested in
dinosaurs at two and could name most of them on sight when he was still in
kindergarten. I got him to do a radio commercial with me in which he had to
pronounce Pachylacephalosaurus and he got it on the first take.
I looked at Ryan a long time today and it was a revelation. I
think of him as a certain size, a certain age, and then he walks in the room
and he’s bigger than the image that was in my mind a moment before. The speed
of his growth takes my breath away--it's almost like he grew in the last few
seconds. I remember having the same feelings about Kerri and Kristi. They grow so fast. They’ll soon be grown and gone.